Apologies in advance for
the length of this post, but I have finally had to make the admission to myself
(which you may have already gathered yourself from my previous sporadic
posting!) that I am a blogger of very good intentions but a lack of time to
actually dedicate to posting! I don’t want to make excuses, but since my last
post, added to all the regular work and life stuff, there have been other
reasons for my lack of presence.
Looking back at my
last post, all the way back in March, it feels like such a short time ago, but
in that few months so much has changed for us. I don’t usually talk about
personal things on this blog. I try to keep to the yarny stuff. I find that
comes more easily to me. But recently there seem to be a lot of stories on the
web about craft as a powerful healer and I have found crafting (and talking)
has helped me through a hard time this year.
Recently I had a
lovely chat with the gorgeous sisters behind the yarn company Millamia, which
is experiencing its own transitional year in many ways and it made me think
once more about my experiences this year and was the motivation for writing
them down here. When I wrote that last post in March I was in the middle of
writing a new book (due out next year) and I was making a soft, pretty granny
blanket for it using the gorgeously squishy Millamia Aran weight. When I began making the blanket it was
a daily reminder of the impending exciting, positive changes I had to look
forward to this year. I enjoyed working on that blanket so much, the yarn is a
pleasure to work with and the colours are so calming. As anyone who follows me
on Pinterest or Instagram will know, the greyscale and pop of warm ochre is one
of my all time favourite colourways!
In the week following
that last March post, two things happened – I got very ill and we moved home.
Not just to a new house, but a new county. I have always lived in and around
London, but this confirmed big city gal has overcome her vertigo and moved
(slightly) north! Away from friends and family for a new adventure. Despite my
initial worries, I am finding that I enjoy the slower pace of life, the
serenity of the surrounding countryside and the large network of families who
surround us. The most joyous thing is seeing my daughter play in our street
with her new friends, which she never did in the city.
The blanket, meanwhile,
became something different – it was a symbol of the hopefulness I had felt
before that fateful week and a soothing project I needed to work through to
help myself heal. I needed to finish that project before anything else. It
needed ‘closure’. As I worked, I posted a picture on Instagram, my little reach
out to the world. I mused about how many different, conflicting emotions could
be captured in a project, entwined in the rhythmical knotting of one long piece
of thread. I thought I was being cryptic enough to protect my own privacy, but
a good friend insisted that we meet to talk. I was moved to tears. The healing
had begun. I am now looking forward to hopefully having that blanket returned
to me once the book is published as a tangible reminder of all I have been
through this year, in the hope I will never forget the myriad of important
emotions I experienced. Much like a Crochet Mood Blanket, it is more powerful
than even a diary from the time could have been, when I couldn’t phrase all the
things I needed to say, pick out the important stuff from all the thoughts
rushing through my head.
I know that the way I
have used crafting in my life to work through problems is not unique. I have
heard many similar stories to mine over my years working with yarn, especially
when I worked in Loop. Our ancestors knew all about yarn, crafts and their
healing, commemorative properties, about the love that can be shared through
one piece of fabric. I have discovered, from my own experiences teaching textiles,
that groups of people crafting talk about things they would not usually share
with strangers, a phenomenon that I have read people have utilised in therapeutic
ways. I feel almost like an online crafting, creative community has also aided
my own healing and I want to say thank you to all the people who have
generously shared their own stories directly with me, or indirectly through
sharing with the Internet at large. You have been a great help.
Normal service will
continue shortly. Hopefully with a new-look blog and a rejuvenated approach. In
my time away I have been planning more tutorials, free patterns and content
that I hope you will find useful. I am now starting the process of teaching my
little one to knit, which I shall also share here to aid you with teaching your
own little ones. I am hoping she will enjoy it and use it as a tool for
relaxation, creativity, healing – whatever she wishes. Perhaps she will even
think fondly of the craft as a link to me, in the way that I feel I have a link
to my own mother, and even my great grandmother and the generations further
back that I have no knowledge of who passed down these skills. These are the
things I love about yarn crafts. The things I am endlessly interested in. I
hope you are too. I will never tire of talking about them, and want to
encourage this talking, crafting and perhaps even healing.
